Laying in bed
A vision comes to me
My mother
standing in a bikini
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She is not at the beach or by the pool
She is in the house
Standing by her bedroom double doors
Frowning at the camera
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The bikini is red, white, blue
Stars and stripes forever
It may be 1976, the 200th Us birthday
She frowns at the camera
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My father took the picture
and in the days before photoshop
He sculpted her body
With a black pen
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He marked out the extra weight around her abdomen
Black pens marks on her arms and thighs
Scars on the picture
Reflect her suffering from her imperfections
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She was not morbidly obese,
barely overweight, 5’6″, 140-150 pounds
And yet it was not what he wanted
So he chose to mark her up
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Years later, a similar set of pictures
Pictures of my brother before his death
Shorts and overweight, Father encouraged him
Go off the medications, lose weight
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Mother suffered from this critical eye
Brother dies, off his medications
And me, I shrink away because of this scarring
Fearing the marks, the shame, the fat, the padding
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The difference is that it is easier for me
I do not hunger the same way
I love to work out and move my body
I care for my health
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And yet I know somehow, I have been marked
The black ink fading onto me
Staining my body
Scratching my picture.
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Call it epi-genetics
I can feel those scars across the family
The shame, the frowns, the disgust
The fear, the pain, captured in the picture.